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Doug Giles: The Warrior-Pastor Leading a Charge for Biblical Masculinity

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In this powerful episode of Manlihood, Doug Giles—a warrior-pastor, author, and outspoken advocate for biblical masculinity—unpacks his bold approach to challenging the softness that’s crept into modern masculinity and the church. Known for his direct, unapologetic voice, Doug shares why it’s time for men to stand up, take action, and embody their warrior spirit in a world that’s increasingly pulling them away from their true calling.

The Call to Men: Rise Up

Doug opens the conversation by confronting a crucial issue in today’s culture: the emasculation of men. “We are living in a culture right now that wants to make men weak,” Doug states, his voice firm. “I mean, they want to cut their balls off—metaphorically speaking.” His no-nonsense approach underscores the gravity of the situation. Doug passionately urges men to stop buying into the soft, passive portrayal of masculinity that the world is selling.

“We’ve got men who are afraid to be men,” Doug continues. “You need to embrace your masculinity. You need to take your fight to the culture. It’s time for men to rise up.” His words carry the weight of a challenge: that men have been called by God to be warriors, not only in the physical sense but spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.

Rejecting Soft Christianity

A significant part of Doug’s message is directed at the modern church, which he believes has fallen into the trap of softness. “The church has just become so weak,” Doug laments. “We’ve watered everything down to where Jesus looks like a soft, passive guy who never challenges anyone.”

For Doug, this is a dangerous trend. He emphasizes that Jesus was bold, brave, and unafraid to speak the truth. “Jesus was not this soft, hippie guy that everybody paints him out to be,” Doug declares. “He flipped over tables; He stood up for what was right. That’s the Jesus we need to embrace.”

Doug calls for a church that equips men to embrace their strength, their leadership, and their role in the spiritual battle. “We’ve got to stop telling men to sit down and shut up,” Doug argues. “They’ve got to be challenged to fight for their faith, fight for their families, fight for freedom.”

The Fight for Masculinity

At the core of Doug’s message is a call for men to reject the passive, “nice guy” approach to life and instead embrace the warrior mentality that comes with being a man of faith. “Men need to fight. You’ve got to fight for your family, for your faith, for your values. If you don’t fight, everything that you love is going to be taken from you,” Doug warns.

His call for men to take action is clear: “This is a battle. If you’re not fighting, you’re losing. You’ve got to stand up and be the man God called you to be.”

Who is Doug Giles? 

In an era where many religious voices seem to whisper, Doug Giles has chosen to roar. With his Bachelor of Fine Arts from Texas Tech University and theological training from Knox Theological Seminary, Doug brings a rare combination of artistic sensitivity and theological muscle to the cultural battlefield.

As Dr. R.C. Sproul, one of Doug’s former instructors, noted, “Doug Giles brings a sharp, humorous, bold and captivating style to ministry that strikes a chord with young people.” This unique approach has helped him build ClashDaily.com into a digital powerhouse with over 300 million page views, while his Warriors & Wildmen podcast has amassed more than a million downloads from men hungry for unvarnished truth.

But Doug isn’t just a media figure – he’s a renaissance man who refuses to be boxed in. As an accomplished artist and filmmaker, his work can be viewed at DougGiles.Art, where he recently released “Biblical Badasses: A Raw Look at Christianity and Art.” His written words have found homes in prestigious publications including The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Times, and Fox Nation.

The warrior spirit runs deep in the Giles family. His daughters, Hannah and Regis, both black belts in Gracie/Valente Jiu-Jitsu, have carved their own paths in making significant cultural impact. Hannah’s undercover work devastated ACORN in 2009, while Regis has emerged as a powerful voice for young women through her book “How Not to Be A #Me-Too Victim, But A #WarriorChick.”

As Lieutenant Colonel Allen B. West describes him, Doug is “the perfect dynamite needed to ignite a fire in the belly of every man, woman and child to live like warriors.” This fire is perhaps most evident in his latest Amazon bestseller, “The Wildman Devotional: A 50 Day Devotional for Men,” where he challenges men to embrace both their faith and their fight.

“There is NO way to describe Doug Giles adequately,” says Eric Metaxas, and he’s right. Part pastor, part warrior, part artist, and full-time culture shaker, Doug Giles continues to challenge the status quo of modern Christianity. As Rush Limbaugh once observed, “Doug Giles must be some kind of a great guy if CNN wants to impugn him.”

In an age where traditional masculinity is often viewed with suspicion, Doug stands as a bold reminder that being a Christian man doesn’t mean being a weak one. Through his multimedia platform, he continues to rally warriors for faith, family, and freedom – proving that one voice, when backed by conviction and courage, can indeed make a difference.

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Previous Episode: https://www.manlihood.com/doug-giles-warrior-and-wildman/
Art: https://www.douggiles.art/

Books: https://amzn.to/3YlGdyk

A Final Charge to Men

As the episode comes to a close, Doug leaves men with a final charge: “Stop being passive. Take action. Fight for what’s important,” he urges. “If you don’t stand up for your faith, your family, and your freedoms, you’re going to lose them.”

Doug’s message is clear: being a man of God is not about being passive, soft, or weak. It’s about being strong, courageous, and ready to fight for what matters. “You were made for greatness, men. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.”

Doug Giles’ appearance on Manlihood is a powerful call to action for men to embrace their true identity as warriors. If you’re ready to take up the mantle of biblical masculinity, fight for your values, and stand firm in your faith, this episode is a must-listen.

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Anticipating Regrets, ADHD, and Fatherhood: Josh Hatcher’sConversation on The Journey of a Christian Dad PodcastJosh Hatcher on the Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast

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I recently had the privilege of joining Dan Luigs on The Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast to discuss fatherhood, faith, and the challenges men face as spiritual leaders of their families.

In this powerful conversation, we dove into topics like anticipating future regrets, managing ADHD, and strengthening family relationships.

Here’s a breakdown of what we talked about and why this episode is a must-listen for every Christian dad.

Are Your Actions Creating Future Regrets?

As fathers, the decisions we make today don’t just affect us—they shape the lives of our children and families. On the podcast, I shared how imagining my future regrets has helped me change my thoughts, actions, and responses in the present. This practice has been a game-changer for how I parent and lead my family.

Dan and I explored questions that every dad should ask themselves:

  • Are my actions today creating regrets I’ll carry tomorrow?
  • How can I better respond to my wife and kids, even when I’m angry or triggered?

Being a father means striving to do better, even when we fall short. It’s not about perfection but growth.

Managing ADHD Without Medication

One of the most personal parts of our conversation was my journey with ADHD. I first discovered I had ADHD when my child was diagnosed—and it turned out my wife has ADHD as well. This realization reshaped how we parent and approach family life.

I also shared my experience with ADHD medication, particularly Adderall. While it helped me focus, it ultimately caused a heart attack—a life-altering moment that forced me to rethink my approach.

Now, I manage my ADHD without medication, relying on mindfulness, structure, and intentionality. If you or someone in your family has ADHD, you’ll find practical insights in this episode about navigating its challenges in a healthy, faith-driven way.

Why Every Dad Needs The Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast

Dan Luigs is on a mission to help Christian dads grow as spiritual leaders of their families. His podcast is an incredible resource, offering encouragement, wisdom, and practical tips for navigating fatherhood.

Dan’s The Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast is part of a larger community that supports dads on their path toward Heaven. His private Facebook group, The Journey of a Christian Dad, is a space where men can find accountability, advice, and fellowship.

Here’s what makes the group special:

  • It encourages dads to become the spiritual leaders of their homes.
  • It provides a space for accountability and connection.
  • It equips men to strengthen their families and grow in faith.

Listen to the Episode

🎧 Catch the full episode on Apple Podcasts: The Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast – Anticipating Regrets and ADHD with Josh Hatcher.

📘 Join the Facebook group for Christian dads: The Journey of a Christian Dad Facebook Group.

For more inspiration, check out Dan’s appearance on my podcast, Manlihood:
👉 Dan Luigs: What It Means to Lead Your Family Spiritually.

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Black Eyes and Bloody Lips | Building Resilience Through Life’s Toughest Moments

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In life, challenges can sometimes hit us like a punch to the face. Bruises, both physical and emotional, are marks left behind by experiences that test our limits, yet they can also become powerful reminders of resilience and growth. In this Manlihood episode, we delve into the concept of resilience—the grit and determination that help us weather life’s toughest battles. From enduring hardship to the strength found in community, each element of resilience is a stepping stone toward becoming stronger versions of ourselves.

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Embracing the Pain

Pain and hardship are unavoidable; they’re woven into the human experience. These moments of struggle, though difficult, shape who we become. By leaning into the discomfort, rather than avoiding it, we allow these experiences to refine us. Embracing pain doesn’t mean enjoying it but recognizing its potential to mold us, deepen our character, and fortify our resolve.

The Role of Perseverance and Grit

Perseverance means pushing forward, even when the road seems impossible. Resilience isn’t an overnight achievement; it’s the result of repeatedly choosing to stand up, face challenges, and continue moving. This mindset, built through hardship, is what allows us to grow stronger over time. In this episode, I share practical strategies to build mental toughness, helping turn each setback into a stepping stone instead of a stumbling block.

The Power of Brotherhood in Hard Times

We’re not meant to endure life’s challenges alone. For men, community and brotherhood can be especially powerful, providing the support we need without taking away our agency. Having people who understand our struggles and encourage us to stay the course is invaluable. A brotherhood fosters resilience as we remind each other of our purpose and lift each other up during tough times. True brotherhood strengthens without enabling dependence—it’s about mutual empowerment.

Learning from Failure

Failure can be an intimidating word, but it doesn’t mean the end. Often, it’s a crucial turning point that teaches us what success cannot. Setbacks, missteps, and failures, while painful, can be profound sources of growth if we reflect on them and choose to learn. Those “black eyes” and “bloody lips” can serve as badges of resilience—proof of our endurance and of the lessons learned along the way.

The Power of Self-Control and Discipline

In moments of adversity, maintaining self-control is essential. Though it may not be easy to keep emotions in check when the pressure mounts, developing resilience requires it. Discipline—whether through consistent habits or small, intentional choices—equips us to face adversity with clarity and composure. It’s the foundation upon which we can stand firm, even in the face of overwhelming challenges.

Join me on this journey of resilience, as we unpack how hardship, failure, and even scars can serve as the foundation of personal strength. Whether you’re enduring a difficult season or supporting someone else, let’s walk this path together. Each scar is a reminder of strength gained, and each setback an opportunity to grow stronger.

If these insights resonate with you, be sure to subscribe to Manlihood for more content on personal growth and resilience. And don’t forget to share this with someone who might need a reminder that they’re not alone in their struggles. Together, let’s build a resilient community, one story at a time.

GS Youngblood on Manlihood

Building Authentic Masculinity: Lessons from a Leading Voice on Embodiment, Emotional Connection, and Leadership

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Things are different in 2024. Gender politics has confused the landscape for many. And even folks who consider themselves “old-fashioned” sometimes struggle to understand what it means to act like a man, or to act like a woman. Just saying that sentence makes people’s skin crawl in 2024.  In an era where gender dynamics are in constant flux, many men find themselves uncertain about their role and place in the world. Amidst the noise and confusion, one voice is emerging as a beacon of clarity – that is the voice of today’s guest, GS Youngblood.

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GS Youngblood is a leading voice in masculine development and relationship dynamics, with nearly 100,000 books sold worldwide. Author of “The Masculine in Relationship” and “The Art of Embodiment for Men,” he’s spent 15 years developing the Masculine Blueprint—a proven three-part framework that helps men create stronger, more fulfilling relationships by leading from their Masculine Core. Through his work, GS guides men to move beyond reaction, establish clear direction, and create genuine safety in their relationships, transforming not just their intimate partnerships but their entire approach to life.

In a world where relationships often falter due to unclear gender dynamics and lack of authentic leadership, GS Youngblood emerges as a beacon of clarity and transformation. With nearly 100,000 books sold and 15 years of deep immersion in the field of masculine development and relationship dynamics, GS has distilled complex interpersonal challenges into actionable wisdom through his groundbreaking works.

At the heart of Youngblood’s teachings lies the “Masculine Blueprint” – a three-part framework that guides men to cultivate the qualities needed to create stronger, more fulfilling relationships. It’s a far cry from the outdated stereotypes of domineering machismo or passive niceness. Instead, Youngblood’s Blueprint points the way toward a potent yet caring masculinity, one that creates space for both partners to thrive.

The Masculine Blueprint

The first element of Youngblood’s framework is what he calls “respond versus react.” This is all about developing embodiment and grounding practices to move a man from a state of constant reactivity to one of calm, centered presence.

“A lot of guys are just playing out scripting and habituation and operating out of their wounds and protective measures,” Youngblood explains. “I want you to be able to choose moment to moment how you’re being. And who you’re going to be – and all that’s possible when you do these grounding practices.”

Through techniques like breathwork, movement, and emotional awareness, men can cultivate the stillness and self-awareness needed to respond skillfully to life’s challenges, rather than reflexively reacting. This foundational layer of embodied presence then allows a man to step into the second element of the Blueprint: providing structure and clear leadership.

“The world is dying for your masculine leadership and I’m teaching men to give it as a gift,” Youngblood says. “This notion of like, ‘Oh, I’m just an easygoing guy, I just go with the flow’ – that’s not a virtue. It feels good for a little while to the feminine, but at some point the feminine gets really bored of that and really frustrated with that because at some point they’re tired of having to provide all the leadership.”

Instead, Youngblood encourages men to get clear on their own needs, boundaries, and vision, while also deeply considering the needs of those around them. From this grounded, other-oriented clarity, a man can then provide the structure, direction, and decision-making that creates a secure foundation for the relationship to thrive.

The final piece of the Masculine Blueprint is what Youngblood calls “create safety” – the ability to build deep emotional connection and safety with one’s partner. This means developing the emotional intelligence and vulnerability to share one’s inner experience, as well as the capacity to “co-regulate” a partner when they’re emotionally dysregulated.

“When you have emotional connection with your woman, everything gets easier,” Youngblood shares. “The stupid thing you said last year when you didn’t have connection will be perceived way different this year when you, when you have a strong emotional connection with her, you get so much more leeway as a guy.”

By combining these three elements – embodied presence, clear leadership, and relational attunement – Youngblood believes men can step into a holistic, powerful masculinity that is both deeply self-aware and deeply connected to others.

The Transformative Journey

So where does this blueprint come from for Youngblood? As it turns out, his own personal journey through the trials and tribulations of relationships has been a key driver.

“I had a pretty horrific divorce about 15 years ago,” he shares. “It was very, very challenging and painful, and I definitely felt like a failure… A lot of self blame and certainly a lot of self doubt in me.”

Rather than letting that experience define him, however, Youngblood was determined to find a better way forward. Over the past 15 years, he’s immersed himself in studying with various teachers and thought leaders, while also being “in a real relationship with a powerful woman” – a crucible that has allowed him to test and refine his ideas in real time.

“I’m able to see what works and what doesn’t work,” he says. “And that’s kind of the basis of my teachings. I think that’s how a lot of guys experience it. It’s not airy fairy or theoretical. It’s very practical and applicable in real guys lives. And I think that’s why guys are gravitating towards the work.”

Indeed, Youngblood’s approach stands in stark contrast to much of the men’s work out there, which he sees as too theoretical and disconnected from the real challenges men face. By weaving together insights from trauma work, embodiment practices, and his own hard-won relationship lessons, Youngblood has developed a surprisingly comprehensive and applicable framework.

The Path Forward

So what would Youngblood say to the modern man who is searching for more clarity, purpose, and connection in his life and relationships? The answer, in short, is to “live the blueprint.”

“Get grounded, lead more in your relationships and build, build connection and safety in those that, that matter to you. And you will be a man,” he says.

Of course, putting this into practice is easier said than done. Youngblood acknowledges that the work of embodying authentic masculinity is an ongoing journey, one that requires vulnerability, self-awareness, and a willingness to face one’s own wounds and limitations.

“Don’t be embarrassed for being a man. Don’t let anybody try to shame you with their projections onto you,” he advises. “And know the impact that you have. You have a massive impact on the world one way or the other.”

Whether a man chooses to abdicate his power or to embrace it, Youngblood believes the consequences will be profound. It’s a call to consciousness, an invitation to step up and become the kind of grounded, compassionate leader that the world so desperately needs.

For those ready to heed that call, Youngblood’s teachings on the Masculine Blueprint provide a powerful roadmap. By cultivating embodied presence, clear directionality, and deep relational intelligence, men can unlock a masculinity that is both potent and life-affirming – for themselves, their partners, and the world around them.

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Don’t Be a Cuck: A Guide to Strengthening Your Relationship and Becoming the Man She Needs.

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 Don’t be a cuck! It’s stark language and it drives home a sobering and almost gross truth. 

The term ‘cuck’ originates from ‘cuckold,’ historically laden with shame but now wielded as a hurtful label. It describes a man whose partner seeks intimacy elsewhere due to perceived weakness. But this isn’t just about labels; it’s about fortifying our relationships from within. 

Some people are apparently into it as a fetish. I don’t know who would want this. It’s a broken and disgusting practice. It’s a weak man that would want someone else to use his wife for sexual gratification. It’s a weak man that can’t please his wife that she would want someone else. It’s a twisted man that would force his wife to be shared with another man (sometimes against her will.) I get that this is an age when sexual ethics and morality looks different than it used to be, and no one likes being told what they should do in the bedroom, but I think we can all admit that this “anything goes” mentality is damaging to our culture. That may be another topic for another blog post, though. This post is written under the assumption that most men don’t want their wife to pursue some other man.

Embrace Personal Growth

If you fear being seen as a cuckold or if infidelity has already pierced your heart, the first step isn’t blame—it’s introspection. Take ownership of your role, not out of guilt, but from a place of personal responsibility. This isn’t just about relationships; it’s about becoming the man you’re meant to be in every facet of life.

Growth isn’t a reaction to external threats but a personal commitment to constant improvement. It’s waking up each day with a determination to refine your character, hone your skills, and deepen your understanding of yourself and your partner. When you strive for personal excellence, you not only become more attractive but also more resilient—a man who can weather any storm.

Focus on Self-Improvement

Improvement shouldn’t stem from fear of losing her; it should come from a desire to be better—for yourself and for her. Become the man who makes wise decisions, who’s emotionally present, who she can rely on. It’s about growing into a person worthy of admiration, not out of necessity, but out of choice.

Self-improvement isn’t just about physical appearance or career success; it’s about emotional intelligence, spiritual depth, and relational maturity. It’s learning to communicate effectively, to resolve conflicts respectfully, and to lead with integrity and compassion. When you prioritize personal growth, you demonstrate your commitment to the relationship’s longevity and vitality.

Meet Her Needs, Always

My father’s advice echoes in my mind: “Always meet your wife’s needs; otherwise, someone else will.” It’s not just about physical desires but emotional and spiritual needs too. Ask her directly, listen attentively, and act decisively. Courageous conversations pave the way for a deeper connection and a stronger bond.

Understanding her needs isn’t a one-time effort but an ongoing journey of discovery and responsiveness. It’s being attuned to her moods, desires, and aspirations, and showing genuine interest in her well-being. Whether it’s a listening ear after a long day or a thoughtful gesture on a special occasion, meeting her needs cultivates a sense of security and satisfaction in the relationship.

Commit to Guarding Your Love

Affairs seldom start in a single moment but often grow from emotional voids. Establish clear boundaries together, not out of mistrust but mutual respect. Transparency fosters trust. It’s about safeguarding what you cherish most, ensuring that your relationship is a sanctuary of trust and fidelity.

Guarding your love requires a proactive stance—a commitment to nurturing intimacy and protecting your emotional connection. It means prioritizing quality time together, maintaining open lines of communication, and actively supporting each other’s dreams and aspirations. By setting boundaries around friendships and interactions with others, you reinforce your commitment to each other’s happiness and security.

Fight for Your Marriage

To build a lasting partnership, fight relentlessly for a relationship that withstands life’s trials. Invest in love and respect, not control or suspicion. Seek help when needed; it’s a sign of strength, not weakness. Renew your commitment daily, nurturing a love that neither of you would ever jeopardize.

Fighting for your marriage isn’t about avoiding conflicts but resolving them with grace and understanding. It’s about being willing to compromise, apologize when necessary, and forgive freely. By addressing issues promptly and constructively, you prevent resentments from festering and strengthen the foundation of your relationship. Whether through couples’ counseling or heartfelt conversations, facing challenges together builds resilience and deepens your bond.

Intentionality is Key

In the end, it’s about setting intentions and following through. Understand her needs intimately, commit to self-improvement, and cultivate a relationship grounded in trust and respect. These steps aren’t just about avoiding pitfalls; they’re about building a life together that’s worth fighting for—a journey of growth, love, and unwavering commitment.

By embracing personal growth, focusing on self-improvement, meeting her needs consistently, committing to guarding your love, and fighting for your marriage, you create a partnership that’s resilient, fulfilling, and enduring. It’s not just about avoiding being a ‘cuck’; it’s about becoming the man she deserves and ensuring that your relationship flourishes in every season of life.

Handling an Unfaithful Partner: The Painful Path of Forgiveness and Healing

When faced with a partner’s infidelity, the road ahead is challenging, laden with emotional turmoil, self-reflection, and difficult decisions. While you can’t change her actions, you can change your response to them. It’s crucial to remember that you didn’t cheat, and you’re not solely to blame for her actions. However, taking responsibility for your part in the relationship is essential.

Accepting Responsibility Without Blame

First, ask yourself if there were shortcomings on your end. This isn’t about accepting blame but recognizing areas where you might have fallen short. Did you neglect her emotional needs? Were you inattentive or distant? Identify these areas and take responsibility for them. Work diligently to correct them and make amends. This step is vital because it sets the stage for rebuilding trust and shows your commitment to improving the relationship. But remember, she needs to take responsibility for her part in her failures as well, and not blame you for her actions. Each party must own up to their contributions to the relationship’s state to start the rebuilding process.

The Painful Process of Forgiveness

Forgiving an unfaithful partner is excruciatingly difficult. It requires a deep well of empathy, patience, and a genuine willingness to rebuild. Here’s what the process might look like:

  1. Acknowledge the Pain: Don’t suppress your feelings. Allow yourself to fully experience the hurt and betrayal. This is an essential step in healing.
  2. Seek Professional Help: Couples counseling can provide a safe space for both partners to express their feelings and work through issues. A professional can help guide the conversation, ensuring that both sides are heard and understood.
  3. Set Clear Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries moving forward. These boundaries are crucial for rebuilding trust and ensuring that both partners feel secure in the relationship.
  4. Commit to Transparency: Both partners need to be completely transparent with each other. This might include sharing phone passwords, being open about whereabouts, and discussing feelings honestly and openly.
  5. Rebuild Trust Gradually: Trust isn’t rebuilt overnight. It takes consistent, trustworthy behavior over time. Be patient with each other and recognize that this is a marathon, not a sprint.

Seeking Divorce: Navigating the Path of Separation and Self-Rebuilding

No one enters a marriage intending to divorce. It’s always a tragedy when a relationship reaches this point. If divorce is the only path forward, it’s crucial to treat it with the gravity it deserves.

Grieving the Loss

Divorce is akin to a death. It’s the end of a significant chapter in your life, and it’s vital to grieve this loss properly.

  1. Take Your Time: Don’t rush through the process. Allow yourself to feel the pain, anger, and sadness that come with the end of a marriage. This grieving period is essential for your emotional health.
  2. Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Consider joining a support group for individuals going through divorce. Sharing your experiences and hearing others’ stories can be incredibly healing.
  3. Avoid Rebound Relationships: So many men, in their desperation to fill the void, rush into new relationships. This is often a mistake. It’s important to heal fully before seeking new romantic connections. Don’t let the vultures pick your bones like roadkill. Heal first.

Rebuilding Your Life

Once you’ve grieved, it’s time to focus on rebuilding your life. This phase is about rediscovering yourself and finding new paths to happiness.

  1. Rediscover Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities that you love and that make you feel fulfilled. This is a time to rediscover who you are outside of the relationship.
  2. Set New Goals: Establish personal and professional goals that excite you. Focus on building a future that you look forward to.
  3. Prioritize Self-Care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health. Exercise, eat well, and consider seeing a therapist to help navigate this new chapter of your life.

Moving Forward with Strength and Integrity

Whether you choose the path of forgiveness or separation, the key is to move forward with strength and integrity. Acknowledge your feelings, take responsibility for your actions, and make conscious decisions to improve yourself. Remember, you can’t change her actions, but you can change your response to them. This journey, though painful, can lead to profound personal growth and a deeper understanding of yourself and your needs.

Embracing Strength and Self-Respect

It’s essential to remember that you are not defined by your partner’s actions. Being faithful, committed, and loving doesn’t make you weak or deserving of disrespect. You have the power to respond with strength and dignity, ensuring that your self-worth remains intact.

You are not a “cuck” for valuing fidelity and working towards a better relationship or a better life. You are a man who knows his worth and is willing to do the hard work of healing, growing, and demanding the respect and love that you deserve.

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Responsibility is a Heavier Weight than Privilege | Manlihood ManCast: A Podcast for Men

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In today’s society, the concept of privilege has become a buzzword. We often hear about male privilege and the advantages that come with it. However, I believe there is a bigger picture that we need to consider. Instead of focusing solely on privilege, we should shift our perspective to the heart of the matter and explore how responsibility can make a real difference in someone’s life. In this blog post, we will delve deeper into this topic and discuss why responsibility is a heavier weight than privilege.

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Responsibility Over Privilege:

The notion of privilege has taken on different connotations over the years. It can now be associated with the idea of being handed everything on a silver platter. However, as a man, I believe that manhood is not about privilege but about shouldering responsibility. To be a man is to understand that being stronger physically or having a unique way of thinking comes with the responsibility to care for and support those around us.

Leadership and Service:

One aspect of manhood that aligns with responsibility is leadership. While both men and women can be leaders, for men, it often means taking on the role of leadership in the home. However, it is essential to differentiate true leadership from lordship. True leadership is about serving others and making decisions that benefit those under our care. It is not about demanding obedience or seeking personal privilege but rather guiding and honoring those around us.

Doing the Right Thing:

Another aspect of responsibility is doing the right thing, even when it may be challenging or require sacrificing personal gain. We must strive for morality and set an example for others by upholding ethical values. As men, it is our responsibility to strive for what is right and to ensure that our actions align with our principles. By doing so, we create a positive influence on those around us.

Shifting Perspectives: Earned vs. Deserved:

A crucial shift in mindset is moving away from a sense of entitlement and recognizing that we do not inherently deserve anything. Instead, we should focus on earning the things we receive and being grateful for the blessings that come our way. It’s about understanding that responsibility brings more fulfillment than privilege ever could. By working hard and earning what we have, we cultivate gratitude and appreciation for life’s blessings.

Conclusion:

Responsibility is a weight that we should willingly carry as men. It surpasses the fleeting nature of privilege and grounds us in our purpose. By embracing responsibility, we not only make a difference in our own lives but also in the lives of those around us. Let us shift our focus from privilege to responsibility and strive to be men who lead through service, do the right thing, and live with gratitude. Together, we can create a better world by recognizing that responsibility is a heavier weight than privilege.

Thank you for reading, and I invite you to join the discussion in the Manlihood Man Cave group on Facebook. Share your thoughts on this topic and let’s continue the conversation.

I love you and I’m proud of you.

– Josh Hatcher, Host of the Manlihood ManCast

00:00 Introduction and Upcoming Event Announcement

02:25 Welcome to the Manlihood ManCast

02:56 Understanding Privilege and Responsibility

03:09 The Concept of Male Privilege

05:57 The Responsibility of Being a Man

09:03 Leadership and Responsibility

11:25 Doing the Right Thing: A Man’s Responsibility

13:26 The Difference Between Privilege and Responsibility

18:07 The Weight of Responsibility

18:55 Conclusion and Invitation to Manlihood ManCave

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Is Chivalry Dead? Being a Jerk and Thinking About Sex | ASK A MAN

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In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher tackles some thought-provoking questions submitted by members of the Manlihood ManCave, a private Facebook group for men.

  1. Is Chivalry Dead? Josh explores the concept of chivalry in today’s culture, discussing its relevance and importance. He emphasizes the value of showing respect and honor to women while also allowing them to make their choices and have the freedom they deserve. Chivalry is not dead; it’s about responsibility and respect.
  2. What Separates Men from Boys? Josh defines manhood, discussing the transition from being a young man to a legal adult. He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for oneself and others as a key factor in distinguishing men from boys. Manhood is about embracing responsibility and personal growth.
  3. Balancing Manhood and Vulnerability: Josh addresses the challenge of being a man while being vulnerable and how it can impact one’s mental health. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and honesty but also the need to be selective about sharing vulnerabilities. Josh offers insights into maintaining mental health and channeling thoughts in a positive direction.

Join the conversation and gain valuable insights into chivalry, manhood, and vulnerability in today’s world. Subscribe to the Manlihood ManCast for more episodes focused on helping men navigate the complexities of masculinity and personal growth.

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Ruwando - Ruwan Meepagala

Psychology for Men With Brains and Balls – Ruwan Meepagala

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Welcome back, Manlihood ManCast listeners! In today’s episode, we have a captivating guest joining us, someone whose journey through life has taken him to some truly extraordinary places. Ruwan Meepagala is not just a man of many talents but also a man with a story that will le

ave you eager to dive deeper into the world of masculinity. He’s been featured on prestigious platforms like the BBC, Bloomberg, AskMen, and Psychology Today.

But before we delve into our conversation with Ruwan, let’s get to know him a bit better.

Who is Ruwan?

Ruwan Meepagala is a man of many dimensions. He’s a survivor of a unique and challenging experience, having spent two enlightening (and dark) years in a matriarchal cult. This captivating chapter of his life has been covered by various media outlets, but Ruwan promises that the most intriguing details are reserved for his book, which he is serializing. Be sure to subscribe to get the first chapter: https://www.ruwando.com/subscribe.

Beyond his experiences in the cult, Ruwan is a self-proclaimed history nerd, sharing his insights through his academic project, the History of Man Podcast. You can find all his articles for free on Substack: https://www.ruwando.com/history-of-man-articles and tune in to his podcast episodes on any podcasting app.

On a personal note, Ruwan is a devoted father to a baby girl and a loving husband to his beautiful wife. He also has a passion for chess and invites you to challenge him on chess.com: https://www.chess.com/member/ruwan. In addition to his intellectual pursuits, Ruwan holds a blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, is an enthusiast of MMA and Muay Thai, and dabbles in amateur furniture-making.

But that’s not all! Ruwan Meepagala is also the host of the Ruwando Podcast: Psychology for Men with Brains and Balls. In this podcast, he explores archetypal masculinity, relationship polarity, practical philosophy, and more, sometimes featuring intriguing guests.

To connect with Ruwan and explore his work further, visit the following links:

And if you’re looking for personalized coaching, Ruwan offers that too! Check out his coaching services: https://www.ruwando.com/coaching?kref=GDNFnPscSMlF

Don’t miss this intriguing conversation with Ruwan Meepagala on the Manlihood ManCast, where we’ll uncover the layers of masculinity and explore the depths of his unique experiences. Stay tuned, gentlemen!

Quotes from Soren Kierkegaard

Chunks of Manly Wisdom | Quotes from Søren Kierkegaard

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Welcome to another episode of Manly Chunks of Wisdom on the Manlihood ManCast. At Manlihood, we understand that many men lead busy lives and may not have the time to read lengthy books or philosophical treatises to gain insight into how to live life to the fullest. That’s why we’re here to offer you bite-sized chunks of manly wisdom that you can apply to your life today.

In this episode, we’ll be exploring the profound wisdom of Soren Kierkegaard, a Danish philosopher, theologian, and poet who lived in the 19th century. We’ll be sharing some of his best quotes and insights to help inspire you to be a better man. As always, if you enjoy these Manly Chunks of Wisdom, be sure to check out our free book at Manlihood.com/chunk. Thanks for tuning in, and let’s dive into the wisdom of Soren Kierkegaard.

“I stick my finger into existence and it smells of nothing.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“People understand me so poorly that they don’t even understand my complaint about them not understanding me.”

― Søren Kierkegaard, The Journals of Kierkegaard

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“The function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn’t true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“The most common form of despair is not being who you are.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“What labels me, negates me.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang yourself, you’ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“The Bible is very easy to understand. But we Christians are a bunch of scheming swindlers. We pretend to be unable to understand it because we know very well that the minute we understand, we are obliged to act accordingly.”

― Soren Kierkegaard, Provocations: Spiritual Writings of Kierkegaard

“It is so hard to believe because it is so hard to obey.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“God creates out of nothing. Wonderful you say. Yes, to be sure, but he does what is still more wonderful: he makes saints out of sinners.”

― Soren Kierkegaard, The Journals of Kierkegaard

“The proud person always wants to do the right thing, the great thing. But because he wants to do it in his own strength, he is fighting not with man, but with God.”

― Soren A. Kierkegaard

“A fire broke out backstage in a theatre. The clown came out to warn the public; they thought it was a joke and applauded. He repeated it; the acclaim was even greater. I think that’s just how the world will come to an end: to general applause from wits who believe it’s a joke.”

― Soren Kierkegaard, Either/Or, Part I

“If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Pleasure disappoints, possibility never. And what wine is so sparkling, what so fragrant, what so intoxicating, as possibility!”

― Søren Kierkegaard, Either/Or: A Fragment of Life

“To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. Not to dare is to lose oneself.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

“The tyrant dies and his rule is over, the martyr dies and his rule begins.”

― Soren Kierkegaard, The Journals of Kierkegaard

“To venture causes anxiety, but not to venture is to lose one’s self…. And to venture in the highest is precisely to be conscious of one’s self.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“Face the facts of being what you are, for that is what changes what you are.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“Above all, do not lose your desire to walk. Everyday, I walk myself into a state of well-being & walk away from every illness. I have walked myself into my best thoughts, and I know of no thought so burdensome that one cannot walk away from it. But by sitting still, & the more one sits still, the closer one comes to feeling ill. Thus if one just keeps on walking, everything will be all right.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“How did I get into the world? Why was I not asked about it and why was I not informed of the rules and regulations but just thrust into the ranks as if I had been bought by a peddling shanghaier of human beings? How did I get involved in this big enterprise called actuality? Why should I be involved? Isn’t it a matter of choice? And if I am compelled to be involved, where is the manager—I have something to say about this. Is there no manager? To whom shall I make my complaint?”

― Søren Kierkegaard

“There is nothing with which every man is so afraid as getting to know how enormously much he is capable of doing and becoming.”

― Soren Kierkegaard

Thanks for listening, and if you like these Chunks of Manly Wisdom, you’ll love the book that we put together for you. You can get it FREE at http://Manlihood.com/chunk

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Kent Evans | Manhood Journey | How to be a father that makes disciples

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The right tool for the job. It’s a concept that men understand well. Today’s guest talks about the RIGHT TOOLS for Fatherhood.

https://youtu.be/QOzsYN9JjrI

Kent Evans of Manhood Journey

Welcome to the Manlihood ManCast, I’m excited to introduce our guest today, Kent Evans. Kent is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps dads become disciple-makers. Kent understands what it takes to be a dad, with 27 years of marriage to his wife April and raising 5 sons and one daughter-in-law.

After a successful 20-year career as a business leader, Kent embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He’s been featured on various media platforms including television, radio, web outlets, and podcasts. Kent has spoken at parenting and men’s events and is also an author of three books.

Books by Kent Evans

Kent’s first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, provides guidance for men to find mentors and wise counsel. His second book, The Manhood Journey: Charting a Course to Biblical Fatherhood, focuses on helping dads not only be good or great fathers, but godly ones.

In his newest book, Bring Your Hammer: 28 Tools Dads Can Grab From the Book of Nehemiah, Kent provides key tips to help dads become more godly fathers. I’m excited to have Kent on the show today to discuss his journey, his work with Manhood Journey, and his latest book. Welcome, Kent!

Links for Kent Evans

MANHOOD JOURNEY https://manhoodjourney.org/
BRING YOUR HAMMER BOOK https://amzn.to/3sBJycx

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