Men, many of you are navigating divorce. We get a lot of questions on this podcast for men about that topic, and admittedly, having been married for 25 years, I don’t have all the answers. Today’s guest is uniquely qualified to help men navigate divorce, as a leading divorce attorney who has walked through the divorce process himself.
In this episode, Seth R. Nelson, Esq, Managing Partner at NLG Divorce & Family Law, shares valuable advice for those navigating the challenging post-divorce period. Seth recommends taking a minimum of a year after finalizing a divorce before delving into a serious relationship. During this time, he emphasizes the importance of prioritizing quality moments with children without third-party interruptions and dedicating efforts to personal growth.
Seth highlights the significance of utilizing this transitional phase for self-improvement, suggesting avenues like mental health counseling, therapy, recognizing blind spots, and rekindling sidelined hobbies. The focus is on holistic well-being, encompassing physical wellness, mental health, and self-care. The speaker encourages individuals to see this time as an opportunity to rediscover their individuality.
🔍 Learn more about Seth R. Nelson:
Email: seth@nelsonlg.com
Phone: (813) 350-7890
NLG Divorce & Family Law – https://www.nelsonlg.com/
Having experienced divorce himself and being a father, Mr. Nelson understands the process, challenges, and pain involved. He focuses on Florida divorce law, family law, and family law mediation.
Join Josh Hatcher in a profound and captivating conversation with the accomplished musician, Mark Kroos, on the latest episode of the Manlihood Mancast. This engaging discussion delves into crucial aspects of personal development, such as self-love, mindfulness meditation, and understanding one’s emotions and fears. Mark generously shares insights into his personal journey of self-discovery, navigating through trauma, and emphasizing the significance of therapy in one’s life.
Discussing what it means to be a man, Mark highlights the importance of vulnerability, self-awareness, and the processing of emotions. Beyond the introspective moments, the episode also offers a light-hearted bonus with anecdotes from Mark’s touring experiences and valuable insights into his evolving music career, including his upcoming vocal album project and Christmas tour. The blend of introspection, music talk, and relatable life experiences creates a compelling narrative that is bound to inspire listeners and fans of Mark Kroos’s music alike.
In this episode of Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher interviews Manhood Tribes founder Don Ross. They discuss the importance of helping young men transition into manhood, and how society has lost some vital elements in this process. Don shares insights into his program, ‘First Tribe Path to Manhood,’ explaining its key steps such as providing a clear vision of manhood, creating opportunities to practice being a man, and having a dedicated season to transition from boyhood to manhood. During the conversation, both Hatcher and Ross emphasize the importance of community, meaningful discussions, taking risks and having fun in the journey of personal growth.
Don Ross | Developing Men through Manhood Tribes
In today’s culture, many men don’t know what it means to be a man. The journey to Manhood is often fraught with confusion, isolation, and seemingly insurmountable challenges,
Don Ross emerges as a guiding force, seeking to redefine and revive the essence of authentic masculinity. As the founder of Manhood Tribes, Don is on a mission to address the struggles faced by men today and offer a pathway towards meaningful connections, personal growth, and a rediscovery of the timeless virtues that define true manhood.
Manhood Tribes was born out of the recognition that many men grapple with the complexities of modern masculinity, from societal expectations to personal battles with addiction and despair. Don, fueled by a passion for fostering genuine connections among men, established this platform to bring them together in Tribes, acknowledging the innate need for camaraderie and support.
The core philosophy of Manhood Tribes revolves around the belief that men are not designed to navigate life in isolation. Instead, they are meant to thrive in groups, or Tribes, which serve as a source of strength, encouragement, and shared experience. The initiative kicks off with a transformative father/son rite of passage experience called First Tribe, with more diverse experiences planned for the future.
Regardless of one’s stage in life, Manhood Tribes promises to have something to offer. The experience focuses on three key pillars—Manhood, Camaraderie, and Freedom—each designed to facilitate growth in specific areas of a man’s life.
Under the banner of Manhood, participants gain a clear understanding of healthy masculinity and learn how to evolve as men. Camaraderie is fostered through adventure, challenge, and meaningful discussions, leading to the formation of significant friendships. Freedom, the third pillar, embodies the collective fight for healing and restoration, with a spiritual dimension rooted in the transformative power of Jesus.
A cornerstone of Manhood Tribes is the embrace of the “5 Marks of Manhood,” which aims to simplify the understanding of what it means to be a man in today’s complex world. These five fundamental traits—Strength, Courage, Skill, Honor, and Allegiance—serve as guiding principles for men on their journey towards a fulfilled and purposeful life.
As we embark on an insightful conversation with Don Ross on the Manlihood ManCast, we delve deeper into the vision, values, and transformative experiences that define Manhood Tribes, inspiring men to navigate the challenges of life with resilience, authenticity, and a renewed sense of purpose.
More from Don Ross at Manhood Tribes
https://www.manhoodtribes.com/
00:00 Introduction and Purpose of Manlihood
00:24 Introducing the Guest: Don Ross
02:32 The Importance of Male Community
03:43 The Role of Friendship in Manhood
04:18 The Concept of Manhood Tribes
05:00 The Challenges of Young Adulthood
05:31 The Importance of Diverse Friendships
06:59 The Journey of Helping Sons Become Men
08:09 The Struggles of Modern Manhood
11:25 The Five Marks of Manhood
24:43 The Role of Challenges in Manhood
31:24 The Importance of Overcoming Challenges
32:20 The Role of a Father in Encouraging His Son
32:48 The Importance of Positive Feedback
33:30 The Concept of Manhood Challenges
34:18 The Rite of Passage from Boyhood to Manhood
36:19 The Importance of Community in the Rite of Passage
38:21 The Importance of Fun in the Journey to Manhood
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher talks about embracing your own ‘crazy’, meaning those unique differences and idiosyncrasies that everyone has.
He differentiates between being ‘crazy’ and being mentally ill, highlighting that everyone has varying degrees and shades of ‘crazy’. He emphasizes the importance of self-care, sleep, nutrition and seeking professional help when needed. Josh also encourages his listeners to channel their unique differences into productive ways, which he believes can contribute positively to the world. Tune in and join the conversation in the Manlihood ManCave, a private Facebook group for men.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:23 Unleashing Your Crazy: Embracing Individuality
02:06 Understanding Mental Health: A Non-Professional Perspective
03:09 The Power of Embracing Your ‘Crazy’
03:50 When ‘Crazy’ Becomes Debilitating: Seeking Help
06:09 Practical Tips to Manage Your Mental Health
10:37 The Difference Between ‘Crazy’ and ‘Mentally Ill’
11:14 Embrace Your Crazy: The Power of Being Different
Justin Willoughby used to weigh 799 pounds, Manlihood Host Josh Hatcher met him after he started losing that weight, but while he was still massive. Now, he’s lost 600 pounds, and survived a lot of other storms in his life.
Confronting Life’s Battles: An Inspiring Journey from Excessive Weight to Personal Growth
Justin Willoughby, who shares his transformation from being nearly 800 pounds to a healthier weight, dealing with food addiction, divorce, as well as anxiety and panic attacks. This discussions tackle the issues men face, importance of personal growth, friendship, accountability, and supportive relationships on the journey of self-improvement. Justin advocates for a caring approach to checking in on friends’ well-being and reaching out for help. Justin and Josh define a man’s identity, offering invaluable advice to their younger selves and listeners, creating an honest, heartfelt and motivational narrative.
Worldwide Notoriety
Justin has been featured in many major news outlets, including the Today Show, The Doctors, Inside Edition, Teen People Magazine, The National Enquirer, The Associated Press, The 700 Club and more.
In this episode of MANLY CHUNKS OF WISDOM we’ll take a look at some of the amazing wisdom of Dostoevsky, quotes pulled from his novels “The Brothers Karamazov” and “Crime and Punishment amongst others.
If you like these Chunks of wisdom, download our free ebook 500 Chunks of Manly Wisdom: http://manlihood.com/chunks
Quotes from Dostoevsky
“Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov
“Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment
“To go wrong in one’s own way is better than to go right in someone else’s.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment
“I say let the world go to hell, but I should always have my tea.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground
“Man only likes to count his troubles; he doesn’t calculate his happiness.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground, White Nights, The Dream of a Ridiculous Man, and Selections from The House of the Dead
“People speak sometimes about the “bestial” cruelty of man, but that is terribly unjust and offensive to beasts, no animal could ever be so cruel as a man, so artfully, so artistically cruel.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky
“The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov
“But how could you live and have no story to tell?” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, White Nights
“Taking a new step, uttering a new word, is what people fear most.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment
“The world says: “You have needs — satisfy them. You have as much right as the rich and the mighty. Don’t hesitate to satisfy your needs; indeed, expand your needs and demand more.” This is the worldly doctrine of today. And they believe that this is freedom. The result for the rich is isolation and suicide, for the poor, envy and murder.” ― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov
“Much unhappiness has come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky
“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky
In this episode of Manlihood, host Josh Hatcher’s guest is retired US Marine Emilio Roman. Emilio shares his life journey, from the hardships of his childhood through his breakthroughs in overcoming alcohol addiction and becoming an acclaimed author.
https://youtu.be/4qgtnN6khk0
More from Emilio Roman https://www.emilioroman.com/
Emilio emphasizes the importance of stepping out in faith, taking responsibility, the healing power of community, and harnessing your courage to overcome adversity. He also discusses his approach to rehabilitation and how being honest with oneself is critical for healing. Lastly, Emilio talks about the power of discipline, understanding your purpose & impact, and creating meaningful personal & professional mission statements.
Parenting is hard. Do the best you can. (In the end, it’s not up to you.)
Have GRACE for people.
Intimacy only comes when you take off your armor.
Protecting your spouse often means protecting her from yourself. But that doesn’t mean hiding yourself. It means being in control of yourself, being vulnerable with her, and committing to work on the broken parts of you.
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher engages with E.J. Snyder, a notable personality from the reality TV show Naked and Afraid. Snyder shares how his experiences have shaped his life philosophy, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility, mental strength, and constant self-improvement. Throughout the discussion, several serious topics are tackled such as bullying, violence, and the societal perception of masculinity. Snyder also highlights his efforts in promoting survival skills through his own website and training programs. Drawing parallels between iconic actors like John Wayne and modern masculine identity, the series also explores the significance of adapting to contemporary risks, with a particular focus on personal preparedness. The series encapsulates the idea that individual transformation is the key to societal change, inviting audiences to remain proactive in their personal growth. The series ends with a positive message expressing pride and love for their audience, while promising more insightful discussions in upcoming episodes.
https://youtu.be/lYn7k98CsPg
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:59 Invitation to Share the Podcast
01:18 Introducing the Guest: EGA Snyder
01:57 Interview Begins with EGA Snyder
03:25 EGA Snyder’s Background and Career
06:30 EGA Snyder’s Experience on Naked and Afraid
08:16 The Incident of Spearing His Testicle
15:12 EGA Snyder’s Philosophy on Life and Survival
19:31 Discussion on Bullying and Self-Defense
29:05 The Impact of Technology on Modern Life
33:35 The Importance of Self-Sufficiency
34:09 The Journey of Self-Responsibility
34:57 The Importance of Mental Fitness and Health
36:42 Physical Activity and Spiritual Connection
38:02 Self-Defense and the Right to Protect
39:15 Preparation for Worst Case Scenarios
39:30 Survival in the Pandemic: Lessons Learned
41:24 The Concept of Tribalism in Community
41:54 The Ultimate Bug In and Home Defense Guide
42:35 Survival Outdoor Skills Series
43:42 The Importance of Training and Preparedness
48:40 Reflections on Being a Man
54:18 Advice for the Future
59:24 Final Thoughts and Ways to Connect
About EJ Snyder
Errol James “EJ” Snyder, Jr., born on December 3, 1965, in Englewood, New Jersey, is an American survivalist and television personality widely known for his military service and appearances on various reality shows. Standing at an impressive height of 6’3″ and nicknamed “Skullcrusher,” EJ Snyder has had a remarkable and decorated career.
More from EJ Snyder
Website: https://ejsnyder.com/
Military Service:
EJ Snyder’s journey began when he joined the United States Army at the age of 19. Over his 25 years of military service, he served in Ranger positions in Infantry and Airborne units. Earning accolades such as two Bronze Stars and the Legion of Merit, Snyder fought in significant conflicts including the Gulf War in 1991 and Operation Iraqi Freedom in 2004. His role as a Ranger Instructor, Survival & Tracking Instructor, and Drill Sergeant contributed to his moniker “Skullcrusher.”
Survival Expertise:
EJ Snyder’s passion for survival skills developed early in life, learning outdoor skills with his late brother Jeff. His formal survival training began during his time at the US Army Ranger School, where he fell in love with the concept. As a Ranger Instructor, he attended the US Army Survival School (SERE-C) and became the Primary Survival and Tracking Instructor. After retirement, Snyder continued to share his expertise, working as a Government Contractor teaching survival skills to future Green Berets at the US Army SERE School.
Television Career:
EJ Snyder made his television debut on the show “Lost” in 2008, and in 2009, he appeared on the documentary series “Patton 360°.” However, he gained widespread recognition through his appearances on survival shows like “Naked and Afraid,” where he completed challenging tasks in Tanzania and the Amazon. Snyder also co-hosted the ninth season of “Dual Survival” and played the lead role of Max in “Survival T.V. The Movie!” in 2016.
Extreme Survivalist Philosophy:
EJ Snyder is not just a survivor; he is an extreme survivalist who follows a “Train as you Fight” approach. Believing in pushing the limits of both the environment and oneself, he has thrusted himself into extreme survival situations to continually break through the “Laws of 3 of Survival.” Despite his intense experiences, EJ maintains a motto: “Tua Sponte Superstes,” which translates to “Survive By Your Own Will.”
Current Endeavors:
Post his television stints, EJ Snyder remains actively involved in teaching survival skills, serving as a motivational speaker, and volunteering for various veteran and charity causes. His commitment to sharing his knowledge and experiences spans over two decades, making him a respected figure in the survivalist community.
EJ Snyder is not just a television personality; he is a seasoned survivalist with a rich military background, a passion for teaching, and a commitment to pushing the boundaries of survival. His journey, marked by challenges and triumphs, continues to inspire and educate others in the art of thriving in the face of adversity.
In the heart of the maelstrom that was World War I, amidst the chaos of battlefields and the deafening roars of machine guns, a most unexpected hero emerged—an unassuming man named Alvin York. York’s journey was not one of conventional heroism; rather, it was a saga of unwavering courage, unyielding faith, and a relentless commitment to a higher calling.
York has been called “The Deadliest Pacifist in US History.”
After he single-handedly captured 132 enemy soldiers, they asked him how he did it. He said, “I surrounded them.”
Alvin York’s testicular fortitude was in his strategic brilliance that completely went against all of the conventional norms of warfare.
He was born in a log cabin near the Tennessee-Kentucky border in 1887, grew up in a family sustained by subsistence farming and hunting. In 1915, he had an experience with God, and became a devout Christian
As World War I engulfed the world, York, now a man of profound faith, sought conscientious objector status upon being drafted. That pacifist position was challenged though, when he encountered Luke 22:36 “He who hath no sword, let him sell his cloak and buy one.” Guided by those words from Jesus, York abandoned his initial stance and enlisted in the U.S. Army’s 82nd Infantry Division.
The crucible of York’s heroism unfolded on October 8, 1918, during the Meuse-Argonne offensive, the final Allied push against German forces. Tasked with seizing German-held positions, York’s battalion was under fire – a German machine-gun nest rained bullets upon them.
As chaos ensued and the unit’s numbers dwindled, York was thrust to the forefront, commanding a squad of merely 17 men.
Undeterred by the odds, York, feeling a divine calling, advanced alone against the machine-gun position. Drawing upon his sharpshooting skills cultivated during Tennessee Turkey hunting days, he systematically neutralized the enemy. The undergrowth around him ablaze with gunfire, York’s determination and marksmanship cut through the chaos,with lethal precision.
Ammo was running short. Six Germans charged him with bayonettes, and with only seven shots, he took out all six. As he approached the German commanding officer, the tide of the battle irreversibly turned. Faced with the inevitable, the officer surrendered his entire unit, a total of 132 men, in exchange for his life.
York’s story reverberated far beyond the battlefield. Lauded as “the war’s biggest hero” by The New York Times and hailed by General John J. Pershing as “the greatest civilian soldier” of World War I, York returned home to a hero’s welcome.
He leveraged his fame to found a school for underprivileged children, the York Industrial Institute.
In 1941, Hollywood immortalized his bravery in the movie “Sergeant York,” starring Gary Cooper.
When York died in 1964, President Lyndon Johnson eulogized him as “a symbol of American courage and sacrifice,” embodying “the gallantry of American fighting men and their sacrifices on behalf of freedom.”
Alvin York, A humble man propelled by faith and armed with unyielding determination, became a symbol of courage, defying expectations and inspiring generations.
His name echoes as a testament to the enduring power of faith, courage, and commitment on the battlefield. Alvin York – a soldier with true Testicular Fortitude.
