In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher speaks about the feeling of being stuck in one’s life, dreaming about desired futures, and the necessity of change, investment and sacrifice to make those dreams a reality. He uses metaphors such as rafting down a river, filling a jar with spare change and the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly to illustrate these points.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
Have you ever felt stuck and looked at your life and said, that’s where I want to be….
00:47 Appreciation and Giveaway Announcement
Gentlemen, welcome to the Manlihood….
02:28 The Rafting Story: A Metaphor for Life
Years ago, I used to go….
04:57 Understanding Your Goals and Dreams
So you get in those situations in your life where you can see your end goal, you can see where you want to go….
06:22 The Importance of Change and Sacrifice
You’ve got to make some big changes….
07:40 The Power of Positive Thinking
So I got to say guys, that first thing, that first change is the biggest and the hardest change….
09:44 The Concept of Sacrifice
You know, Um, When I was a kid, I love telling stories….
13:31 Metamorphosis: A Symbol of Transformation
And in my relationship with god as a christian there’s also a degree of it that into whichi am saying lord i’m giving this thing up to you14:30 Conclusion: The Power of Community
And the worm Eats all the leaves and it grows really big and then it sacrifices and it makes a change
Welcome to the Manlihood Mancast, where resilience, adventure, and self-discovery converge. In this compelling episode, we sit down with the versatile Adam Pendicini, a man whose life journey resonates with triumphs and challenges, from the glamorous world of acting to the demanding terrain of 200-mile races.
A Tapestry of Adventure
Adam’s story is more than a series of achievements; it’s a testament to the fortitude found in facing life’s adversities head-on. Host Josh guides us through a conversation that delves into the significance of embracing challenges and living a life authentically marked by adventure.
Embracing Resilience and Transformative Adventures
Adam Pendicini’s narrative goes beyond the surface, exploring the impact of childhood trauma, the resilience needed to overcome it, and the transformative power embedded in everyday adventures. Whether gracing the screen or conquering ultra-marathons, Adam’s experiences have cultivated not just physical strength but also a profound understanding of self.
Adventure Fit: A Program Changing Lives
The conversation unfolds to reveal Adam’s brainchild, the Adventure Fit program. Rooted in the pillars of introspection work, movement, and adventure, this program aims to empower men to prioritize their well-being. By shattering the time constraints often cited as excuses, Adam inspires a community of men to embark on a transformative journey of personal growth.
As we explore Adam Pendicini’s journey, the Manlihood Mancast becomes a compass guiding men toward a life marked by resilience, adventure, and personal development. Join us in unleashing your potential, breaking free from excuses, and connecting with a community that shares your desire for a holistic and fulfilling existence.
Discover the world of adventure, health, and personal development seamlessly merging in this impactful episode. It’s time to prioritize your well-being and embark on a life-changing adventure with Adam Pendicini. The path to a healthier, happier, and more adventurous you starts here.
Ready to end the cycle of negativity in your relationship? Figs O’Sullivan shows you the way on this episode of the Manlihood ManCast
Figs O’Sullivan, a distinguished Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and an unwavering advocate for Emotionally-Focused Therapy, stands at the forefront of esteemed therapists in San Francisco. Hailing from the vibrant landscapes of Ireland, Figs has traversed a remarkable path, from the ancient Emerald Isle to the sun-kissed shores of Hawaii, where he now resides with his cherished wife, Teale, and their two children.
In his quest to unravel the mysteries of human healing, Figs bypasses the complexities of traditional therapy, offering a straightforward and often elusive route to personal growth. His mission is to empower men, providing accessible guidance on the challenging journey of emotional development.
Beyond his therapeutic prowess, Figs embodies the qualities of a loving father, a dependable friend, and a trusted confidant, underscoring the principles of manhood and empathy. His remarkable expertise has earned him a reputation as the go-to couples therapist for the influential figures of Silicon Valley. Figs is no stranger to assisting the world’s brightest and most creative minds in forging resilient and loving partnerships.
What sets Figs apart is his captivating, quick-witted, and relatable speaking style, inviting his male audience into insightful, and at times, humorous discussions. His ability to decipher human emotions has even drawn comparisons to the formidable IBM Watson, as noted by NPR.
Figs O’Sullivan’s impact transcends his therapy room. With over 1,500 course participants and a community of more than 16,000 Empathi users, his wisdom reaches far and wide. A dedicated community of 20,000 email subscribers eagerly awaits his insights and guidance.
Figs dives into a range of thought-provoking subjects, addressing questions that resonate with men. He demystifies the enigma of recurring relationship conflicts, explores the essence of love, and demystifies the intricacies of human connection. Figs imparts valuable perspectives and practical steps to make love work, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the rational basis behind everyone’s actions. He sheds light on the complexities of building enduring relationships, breaking free from negative patterns, and forging the emotional bonds that define true manhood.
With an abundance of experience and a heartfelt commitment to helping men navigate the intricate landscape of emotions and relationships, Figs O’Sullivan stands as a guiding light for those seeking love and healing. His insights are transformative and deeply resonant, making him an indispensable resource for men on their journey to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Discover the wisdom of Figs O’Sullivan at https://empathi.com/, and join the Manlihood ManCast community in the pursuit of authentic manhood and meaningful connections.
In today’s episode, we have a unique and inspiring guest joining us, someone who’s not just a barber but also a passionate story collector. Let’s introduce you to Tate Yohe, the owner/barber of Neibert’s Barbershop in Mechanicsburg, PA.
Brief Bio Introduction:
Tate Yohe’s journey as a barber is more than just about cutting hair; it’s about building connections and preserving stories. He owns and operates Neibert’s Barbershop in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, where he’s created something truly special.
Drawing from his 14 years of experience in emergency services, Tate initially hung his patch and badge on the wall as a tribute to his past. This simple act led to the creation of a unique “patch wall.”
Former colleagues from his time in emergency services and military clients started coming in for haircuts and adding their patches to the wall. What emerged was a tapestry of stories—stories from the front lines, deployments, moments of triumph, and even moments of loss.
Tate recognized the power of these stories and the need to share them with a broader audience. Thus, he embarked on a mission to bring you inside the barbershop and offer a glimpse into the lives of the individuals whose patches adorn the shop’s walls.
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Don’t miss this enlightening episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we dive into the world of storytelling through patches with Tate Yohe, a barber who is not only grooming hair but also preserving incredible stories. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
George S. Patton was a bold US General with Testicular Fortitude!
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Testicular Fortitude means having deep seated masculine courage and strength. Balls. Guts. Manlihood.
Testicular Fortitude on the Manlihood ManCast is where we take a look at men who have beat the odds, men whose courage has left a lasting legacy.
Patton was born into a wealthy family in San Gabriel, California in 1885. As a child, he had difficulty with spelling and reading, which later led historians to speculate that he suffered from dyslexia. Despite his struggles, Patton became an avid reader and developed a passion for military history. He attended the Virginia Military Institute and then transferred to the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, where he repeated his freshman year due to poor grades. However, Patton improved his academic performance and graduated in June 1909, becoming a commissioned second lieutenant in the cavalry.
Patton’s courage was first tested when he saw his first combat after leaving Fort Riley. In 1916, Pancho Villa led an attack on Columbus, New Mexico, and Patton joined the staff of Brig. Gen. John J. Pershing in the ensuing punitive expedition into Mexico. While the mission failed to capture Villa, Patton led a raid that killed three of Villa’s men, which received much publicity and was notable for being the first time automobiles were used in combat by the US Army.
Patton’s courage was again put to the test during World War I. When the US entered the war, Patton joined the American Expeditionary Force (AEF) in France, where he was appointed as the first officer to the newly formed US Army Tank Corps. Patton trained, organized, and even designed the uniforms for the new tank units. He was promoted to lieutenant colonel and later became the temporary colonel, leading the first US tank units into battle during the Saint-Mihiel offensive.
Despite being badly wounded by a machine-gun bullet in the Meuse-Argonne offensive, Patton refused to be taken to the hospital until he had reported to his commander, showing incredible bravery under fire. His bravery earned him the Distinguished Service Cross.
In the years that followed World War I, Patton continued to be a proponent of tank warfare. During World War II, he was promoted to temporary major general and made the commander of the 2nd Armored Division. After the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor, Patton organized the Desert Training Center to simulate combat and maneuvers in the harsh North African climate.
Patton’s strict discipline, toughness, and self-sacrifice elicited exceptional pride within his ranks, and he was referred to as “Old Blood-and-Guts” by his men. Despite controversies due to his brash actions and mercurial temper, Patton’s bravery and testicular fortitude made him one of the greatest military commanders in history. His legacy lives on as an inspiration to all those who admire and value true courage and bravery.
When Henry Darlington and Gerald Mygatt assembled and published the Soldiers’ and Sailors’ Prayer Book in 1944, they requested many of our nation’s leaders to contribute a written prayer.
Patton submitted a prayer for courage.
I find it interesting, because our picture of Patton’s courage seems to be innate… something he possessed and owned, but if this prayer is to be taken seriously, Patton’s unwavering courage was not drummed up from within, but rather bestowed upon him.
God of our Fathers, who by land and sea has ever led us to victory, please continue Your inspiring guidance in this the greatest of our conflicts.
Strengthen my soul so that the weakening instinct of self-preservation, which besets all of us in battle, shall not blind me to my duty to my own manhood, to the glory of my calling, and to my responsibility to my fellow soldiers.
Grant to our armed forces that disciplined valor and mutual confidence which ensures success in war.
Let me not mourn for the men who have died fighting, but rather let me be glad that such heroes have lived.
If it be my lot to die, let me do so with courage and honor in a man-ner which will bring the greatest harm to the enemy, and please, O Lord, protect and guide those I shall leave behind.
Give us the victory, Lord. Amen.
Testicular Fortitude
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Testicular Fortitude INTRO
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Testicular Fortitude means having deep seated masculine courage and strength. Balls. Guts. Manlihood.
Testicular Fortitude on the Manlihood ManCast is where we take a look at men who have beat the odds, men whose courage has left a lasting legacy.
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Welcome back, Manlihood ManCast listeners! In today’s episode, we have the privilege of introducing you to a multifaceted and exceptionally talented individual, Matt Moore. His diverse skills and passions have earned him a reputation as a true Southern Gentleman and a standout in the culinary world. Let’s delve into his fascinating journey.
Who Is Matt Moore?
Matt Moore wears many hats, and each one showcases his incredible range of talents. He’s not just an author but also an entrepreneur, accomplished cook, musician, host, pilot, and adventurer. Hailing from Nashville, Tennessee, Matt embodies the essence of a Southern Gentleman.
His work has received widespread acclaim and recognition from prestigious sources spanning the BBC and CBC to The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Atlanta Constitution, Chicago Tribune, People, Southern Living, Esquire, Men’s Journal, TODAY, VH1, FOX, Hallmark, The Art of Manliness, and countless others.
In the culinary realm, Matt Moore specializes in updated Southern cuisine infused with Mediterranean and Middle Eastern influences. He’s also renowned for his passion for cast-iron cooking and wild game.
Matt’s literary contributions have made a significant impact. His work, “A Southern Gentleman’s Kitchen” (TIME Inc Books), achieved the remarkable feat of becoming an Amazon #1 bestseller in Spring 2015. His follow-up book, “The South’s Best Butts,” earned the distinction of being named the #1 cookbook by the National BBQ and Grilling Association for 2018. His book, “Serial Griller” (HMH 2020), was met with critical acclaim and featured on CBS, TODAY, PEOPLE, and beyond.
Currently, Matt Moore is actively engaged in working on a butchering book and hosting various exciting projects.
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Matt Moore’s journey is a testament to the power of passion, versatility, and Southern hospitality. Join us in this episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we explore the world of culinary adventures with this remarkable Southern Gentleman. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher tackles some thought-provoking questions submitted by members of the Manlihood ManCave, a private Facebook group for men.
Is Chivalry Dead? Josh explores the concept of chivalry in today’s culture, discussing its relevance and importance. He emphasizes the value of showing respect and honor to women while also allowing them to make their choices and have the freedom they deserve. Chivalry is not dead; it’s about responsibility and respect.
What Separates Men from Boys? Josh defines manhood, discussing the transition from being a young man to a legal adult. He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for oneself and others as a key factor in distinguishing men from boys. Manhood is about embracing responsibility and personal growth.
Balancing Manhood and Vulnerability: Josh addresses the challenge of being a man while being vulnerable and how it can impact one’s mental health. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and honesty but also the need to be selective about sharing vulnerabilities. Josh offers insights into maintaining mental health and channeling thoughts in a positive direction.
Join the conversation and gain valuable insights into chivalry, manhood, and vulnerability in today’s world. Subscribe to the Manlihood ManCast for more episodes focused on helping men navigate the complexities of masculinity and personal growth.
In today’s episode, we have the honor of hosting an extraordinary guest who has dedicated his life to empowering men and helping them transform not just their bodies but their minds as well. Let’s dive into the story of Josh Holyfield.
Who is Josh Holyfield
Josh Holyfield is a man with a remarkable journey that encompasses service, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to empowering others. He is an Army Veteran with over 15 years of experience in deploying and supporting the US Army and Special Operations. His journey into the world of fitness and well-being began in 2005 when he embarked on a weightlifting journey. Simultaneously, he started studying exercise science and nutrition as a personal hobby.
Fitness became more than just a hobby for Josh; it became a lifeline. He used it as a powerful tool to overcome the mental and emotional challenges of serving in the military during combat deployments and, eventually, transitioning into civilian life.
For over a decade after his military service, Josh worked as a federal contractor and federal employee, serving global Special Operations Forces (SOF) operations. In 2019, he took a monumental step and initiated “The Josh Holyfield Project.” Since its inception, this project has impacted the lives of over 40,000 men, equipping them with the tools and resources necessary to transform both their bodies and minds. What sets Josh apart is his approach, which focuses on creating sustainable habits rather than short-term results.
In early 2021, Josh made a bold decision to walk away from his secure federal position, fully dedicating himself to helping men all over the world by offering programming and coaching designed to unleash their full potential.
But Josh’s journey doesn’t stop there. Since 2017, he has achieved significant success by building and scaling two 7-figure online businesses. Furthermore, he works privately with entrepreneurs and advertisers to assist in building and scaling e-commerce and service-based businesses.
Josh Holyfield’s story is one of strength, service, and a deep commitment to helping men unlock their inner warriors. Tune in to this inspiring episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we delve into the wisdom and insights he has to offer. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
Welcome to ASK A MAN on the Manlihood ManCast! We will take your questions and do our best to answer them! In this episode, Josh Hatcher answers the question, “Should I take the job where I can make more money, or spend more time with my family?”
Welcome to another episode of the Manlihood ManCast, where we explore the timeless wisdom of remarkable men throughout history. Today, we dive into the life and quotes of one of the greatest statesmen and leaders of the 20th century, Sir Winston Churchill. Known for his indomitable spirit and resolute courage, Churchill’s wisdom continues to inspire men to this day. Do you want more Manly Chunks of Wisdom? Go to http://manlihood.com/chunks
Winston Churchill: A Man of Courage and Wisdom:
Churchill was born on November 30, 1874, into an aristocratic British family. He had a remarkable political career, serving as a soldier, war correspondent, and statesman. His courage and wisdom were evident from a young age when he joined the British Army, seeing action in India and the Sudan. Churchill’s resilience and determination were on full display during World War II when he served as Britain’s Prime Minister. His stirring speeches and steadfast leadership rallied his nation during its darkest hours, earning him the title ‘The Bulldog of Britain.’
Quotes from Winston Churchill
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
“We are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out.”
“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.”
“We sleep safely at night because rough men stand ready to visit violence on those who would harm us.”
“When the eagles are silent, the parrots begin to jabber.”
“All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope”
“You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”
“Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened.”
“If you are going through hell, keep going.”
“My tastes are simple: I am easily satisfied with the best.”
“History will be kind to me for I intend to write it.”
“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”
“Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip.”
“I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.”
“It is not enough that we do our best; sometimes we must do what is required.”
“For myself I am an optimist – it does not seem to be much use to be anything else.”
“The greatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes.”
“A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.”
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”
“The price of greatness is responsibility.”
“Personally, I’m always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught.”
“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”
“An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last.”
“To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.”
“To each there comes in their lifetime a special moment when they are figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered the chance to do a very special thing, unique to them and fitted to their talents. What a tragedy if that moment finds them unprepared or unqualified for that which could have been their finest hour.”
“Everyone is in favor of free speech. Hardly a day passes without its being extolled, but some people’s idea of it is that they are free to say what they like, but if anyone else says anything back, that is an outrage.”
“Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.”
“Nothing in life is so exhilarating as to be shot at without result.”
“Don’t interrupt me while I’m interrupting.”
As we wrap up this episode of ‘Manly Chunks of Wisdom’ featuring the quotes of Winston Churchill, we’re reminded of the enduring courage, wisdom, and determination of this remarkable man. Churchill’s words serve as a beacon of inspiration for all of us, urging us to stand up for our convictions, face adversity head-on, and always strive for a better tomorrow.
Thank you for joining us today on the Manlihood ManCast. Remember, greatness lies within every man, waiting to be awakened. Stay tuned for more episodes where we explore the timeless wisdom of history’s greatest men.