In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher tackles some thought-provoking questions submitted by members of the Manlihood ManCave, a private Facebook group for men.
Is Chivalry Dead? Josh explores the concept of chivalry in today’s culture, discussing its relevance and importance. He emphasizes the value of showing respect and honor to women while also allowing them to make their choices and have the freedom they deserve. Chivalry is not dead; it’s about responsibility and respect.
What Separates Men from Boys? Josh defines manhood, discussing the transition from being a young man to a legal adult. He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for oneself and others as a key factor in distinguishing men from boys. Manhood is about embracing responsibility and personal growth.
Balancing Manhood and Vulnerability: Josh addresses the challenge of being a man while being vulnerable and how it can impact one’s mental health. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and honesty but also the need to be selective about sharing vulnerabilities. Josh offers insights into maintaining mental health and channeling thoughts in a positive direction.
Join the conversation and gain valuable insights into chivalry, manhood, and vulnerability in today’s world. Subscribe to the Manlihood ManCast for more episodes focused on helping men navigate the complexities of masculinity and personal growth.
In today’s episode, we have the honor of hosting an extraordinary guest who has dedicated his life to empowering men and helping them transform not just their bodies but their minds as well. Let’s dive into the story of Josh Holyfield.
Who is Josh Holyfield
Josh Holyfield is a man with a remarkable journey that encompasses service, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to empowering others. He is an Army Veteran with over 15 years of experience in deploying and supporting the US Army and Special Operations. His journey into the world of fitness and well-being began in 2005 when he embarked on a weightlifting journey. Simultaneously, he started studying exercise science and nutrition as a personal hobby.
Fitness became more than just a hobby for Josh; it became a lifeline. He used it as a powerful tool to overcome the mental and emotional challenges of serving in the military during combat deployments and, eventually, transitioning into civilian life.
For over a decade after his military service, Josh worked as a federal contractor and federal employee, serving global Special Operations Forces (SOF) operations. In 2019, he took a monumental step and initiated “The Josh Holyfield Project.” Since its inception, this project has impacted the lives of over 40,000 men, equipping them with the tools and resources necessary to transform both their bodies and minds. What sets Josh apart is his approach, which focuses on creating sustainable habits rather than short-term results.
In early 2021, Josh made a bold decision to walk away from his secure federal position, fully dedicating himself to helping men all over the world by offering programming and coaching designed to unleash their full potential.
But Josh’s journey doesn’t stop there. Since 2017, he has achieved significant success by building and scaling two 7-figure online businesses. Furthermore, he works privately with entrepreneurs and advertisers to assist in building and scaling e-commerce and service-based businesses.
Josh Holyfield’s story is one of strength, service, and a deep commitment to helping men unlock their inner warriors. Tune in to this inspiring episode of the Manlihood ManCast as we delve into the wisdom and insights he has to offer. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
Welcome to ASK A MAN on the Manlihood ManCast! We will take your questions and do our best to answer them! In this episode, Josh Hatcher answers the question, “Should I take the job where I can make more money, or spend more time with my family?”
Welcome to another episode of the Manlihood ManCast, where we explore the timeless wisdom of remarkable men throughout history. Today, we dive into the life and quotes of one of the greatest statesmen and leaders of the 20th century, Sir Winston Churchill. Known for his indomitable spirit and resolute courage, Churchill’s wisdom continues to inspire men to this day. Do you want more Manly Chunks of Wisdom? Go to http://manlihood.com/chunks
Winston Churchill: A Man of Courage and Wisdom:
Churchill was born on November 30, 1874, into an aristocratic British family. He had a remarkable political career, serving as a soldier, war correspondent, and statesman. His courage and wisdom were evident from a young age when he joined the British Army, seeing action in India and the Sudan. Churchill’s resilience and determination were on full display during World War II when he served as Britain’s Prime Minister. His stirring speeches and steadfast leadership rallied his nation during its darkest hours, earning him the title ‘The Bulldog of Britain.’
Quotes from Winston Churchill
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
“We are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out.”
“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.”
“We sleep safely at night because rough men stand ready to visit violence on those who would harm us.”
“When the eagles are silent, the parrots begin to jabber.”
“All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope”
“You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”
“Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened.”
“If you are going through hell, keep going.”
“My tastes are simple: I am easily satisfied with the best.”
“History will be kind to me for I intend to write it.”
“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”
“Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip.”
“I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.”
“It is not enough that we do our best; sometimes we must do what is required.”
“For myself I am an optimist – it does not seem to be much use to be anything else.”
“The greatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes.”
“A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.”
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”
“The price of greatness is responsibility.”
“Personally, I’m always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught.”
“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”
“An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last.”
“To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.”
“To each there comes in their lifetime a special moment when they are figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered the chance to do a very special thing, unique to them and fitted to their talents. What a tragedy if that moment finds them unprepared or unqualified for that which could have been their finest hour.”
“Everyone is in favor of free speech. Hardly a day passes without its being extolled, but some people’s idea of it is that they are free to say what they like, but if anyone else says anything back, that is an outrage.”
“Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.”
“Nothing in life is so exhilarating as to be shot at without result.”
“Don’t interrupt me while I’m interrupting.”
As we wrap up this episode of ‘Manly Chunks of Wisdom’ featuring the quotes of Winston Churchill, we’re reminded of the enduring courage, wisdom, and determination of this remarkable man. Churchill’s words serve as a beacon of inspiration for all of us, urging us to stand up for our convictions, face adversity head-on, and always strive for a better tomorrow.
Thank you for joining us today on the Manlihood ManCast. Remember, greatness lies within every man, waiting to be awakened. Stay tuned for more episodes where we explore the timeless wisdom of history’s greatest men.
In this episode of TESTICULAR FORTITUDE on the Manlihood ManCast, We’ll learn about Galvarino – A Mapuche Warrior who lost his hands as punishment from the Spanish Conquistadors. He came back to lead his people in battle with swords tied to this wrists! Testicular Fortitude: A Historical Portrait of MEN WITH BALLS.
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You might remember the movie “Edward Scissorhands” – and that story about a family trying to help a boy with scissors on his fingers feel normal and accepted is quite absurd, it’s clearly fiction, and no earthly good to anyone.
What if I told you that there is a story of a warrior with swords for hands that fought bravely against a conquering force for freedom?
In the 1500’s, the Mapuche Tribes lived in Chile and Argentina. The Spanish Conquistadors were doing what Spanish Conquistadors did, expanding the power of the Spanish Empire, conquering as much land as they could, raping, murdering and stealing the people and the land in South America.
The Mapuche united to fight against spanish governor Carcia Hurtado De Mendoza, and their native weaponry and tactics were no match for the firepower and strength of the Spaniards.
At the of Lagunillas, more than 150 warriors were captured. The invaders decided the best way to send a message to the tribes people that they needed to submit to the rule of Spain was to chop off their right hands and noses of some of these warriors. Several tribal leaders, and a man they called Galvarino were ordered to lose both hands.
Galvarino lost both hands on the chopping block without flinching.
The prisoners of war were supposed to cause the natives to shrink in fear and trembling, keeping any future rebellions at bay. But the spaniards underestimate the Mapuche.
Galvarino presented his wounds before his native general, and his cries for justice fueled an uprising. He was placed in command of a squadron of fighters.
Knives were fashioned to fit Galvarino’s mutilated wrists, and he then essentially became a fighter with knives for hands. Some historians described the appendages as large as lances.
He led his troop of fighters alongside Mapuche general Caupolican through several battles, and at the Battle of Millarapue, he fought against the very spaniard who had previously bested him and ordered his mutilation.
Spanish historian Jerónimo de Vivar wrote in Crónica:
He came commanding as a sergeant and animating his men this way: “Ea, my brothers, see that you all fight very well, you do not want be as I am without hands, so that you will not be able to work nor to eat, if you do not give it to them!” And he raised those arms on high, showing them to cause them to fight with more spirit and saying to them: “Those that you are going to fight with cut them, and also will do to whichever of you they take, and nobody is allowed to flee but to die, because you die defending your mother country.” He moved ahead of the squadron a distance, and said with a loud voice that he would die first and though he no longer had hands, that he would do what he could with his teeth.
Pedro Mariño de Lobera chronicled the words of Galvirno saying,
“My Brothers, why have you stopped attacking these Christians, seeing the manifest damage that from the day which they entered our kingdom until today they have done and are doing? And they still will do to you what you see that they have done and they are doing? And still they will do to you what you see that they have done to me, cut your hands off, if you are not diligent in making the most of wreaking destruction on these so injurious people for us and or our children and women.”
The handless warrior faced off against the second in command of the spanish forces at the battle, and dispatched him without prejudice.
The Mapuche did not succeed in the battle, and 3,000 native fighters lost their lives.
Galvarino was captured, and ordered to be executed. Some said he was thrown to the dogs, others report he was hanged.
Galvarino’s resilience, determination, courage, and resistance against brutal oppressors is why he is featured today as a man with Testicular Fortitude.
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Welcome back, Manlihood ManCast listeners! In today’s episode, we have a captivating guest joining us, someone whose journey through life has taken him to some truly extraordinary places. Ruwan Meepagala is not just a man of many talents but also a man with a story that will le
ave you eager to dive deeper into the world of masculinity. He’s been featured on prestigious platforms like the BBC, Bloomberg, AskMen, and Psychology Today.
But before we delve into our conversation with Ruwan, let’s get to know him a bit better.
Who is Ruwan?
Ruwan Meepagala is a man of many dimensions. He’s a survivor of a unique and challenging experience, having spent two enlightening (and dark) years in a matriarchal cult. This captivating chapter of his life has been covered by various media outlets, but Ruwan promises that the most intriguing details are reserved for his book, which he is serializing. Be sure to subscribe to get the first chapter: https://www.ruwando.com/subscribe.
Beyond his experiences in the cult, Ruwan is a self-proclaimed history nerd, sharing his insights through his academic project, the History of Man Podcast. You can find all his articles for free on Substack: https://www.ruwando.com/history-of-man-articles and tune in to his podcast episodes on any podcasting app.
On a personal note, Ruwan is a devoted father to a baby girl and a loving husband to his beautiful wife. He also has a passion for chess and invites you to challenge him on chess.com: https://www.chess.com/member/ruwan. In addition to his intellectual pursuits, Ruwan holds a blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, is an enthusiast of MMA and Muay Thai, and dabbles in amateur furniture-making.
But that’s not all! Ruwan Meepagala is also the host of the Ruwando Podcast: Psychology for Men with Brains and Balls. In this podcast, he explores archetypal masculinity, relationship polarity, practical philosophy, and more, sometimes featuring intriguing guests.
To connect with Ruwan and explore his work further, visit the following links:
Don’t miss this intriguing conversation with Ruwan Meepagala on the Manlihood ManCast, where we’ll uncover the layers of masculinity and explore the depths of his unique experiences. Stay tuned, gentlemen!
Welcome to the Season 7 Launch of the Manlihood ManCast! This season, Josh Hatcher will bring you amazing interviews with intriguing guests who want to help you be the man you were meant to be! We’ll be looking into every aspect of life as a man in this modern era, and equipping men to be better husbands, fathers, and leaders.
Welcome to another episode of the Manlihood ManCast, where we dive deep into the issues facing modern masculinity. In today’s episode, we’re delving into a thought-provoking Reddit post that shines a light on a significant challenge concerning men’s mental health. About a month ago, Reddit user Venusemerald2 posted a thread on the r/AskMen subreddit titled “Im worried about men’s mental health. Men, who do you confide in 100%?” The post not only sparked a fascinating discussion but also raised essential questions about men’s emotional well-being and their struggles when seeking support.
The post’s initial inspiration came from a comment in another thread, suggesting that women don’t care about men’s feelings. Our host, Josh Hatcher shares his insights on the perception of men’s emotional expression and how it impacts their willingness to open up. We explore the question posed in the post: Who do men confide in 100%? Is it their fathers, brothers, friends, or someone else entirely?
Reddit Responses
Venusemerald2’s post generated an unexpected influx of responses, sparking a robust discussion within the Reddit community. Some of the most compelling and insightful comments from the thread are highlighted, along with thoughts from our listeners on this important issue.
The Path Forward
We tackle the crucial question raised in the post: “Where do men get their strength from?” We explore potential solutions and strategies for improving men’s mental health and fostering better emotional support within relationships. It’s a call to action for all of us to create a healthier environment for men to express their emotions and seek help when needed.
Thanks for joining us today on the Manlihood ManCast. If this discussion resonated with you or if you found it enlightening, don’t forget to subscribe to our podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with your friends. Remember, seeking help and support is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Welcome to the Manlihood ManCast – The top-notch personal development podcast for men! In this episode, Josh Hatcher turns to some of our previous show guests to ask them “What Does It Take To Be A Man?”
In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher dives deep into the pivotal moments in his life, driven by a powerful statement that initially offended him but eventually changed his perspective forever. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and the realization that the choices we make shape our reality.
Josh begins by recounting a financial counseling session he had during a challenging period in his life. The financial counselor uttered a statement that initially offended him deeply: “You are where you are because of the choices you’ve made.” At the time, Josh felt victimized by external circumstances and didn’t want to accept that he played a role in his predicament.
As he reflects on this encounter, Josh delves into the choices he and his wife made early in their marriage, including starting a family at a young age and moving back to his hometown. These choices, while meaningful, came with their own set of challenges and financial strains. The financial counselor’s words echoed in his mind, forcing him to confront the reality of his decisions.
Josh emphasizes that life doesn’t always offer immediate rewards for good choices. Sometimes, good choices involve long-term investments, and their positive outcomes may take time to materialize. Additionally, he acknowledges that even good choices can have unexpected consequences, but it’s crucial to accept them and adapt.
The concept of karma, where good choices equate to good outcomes, is challenged, as Josh argues that life is far more intricate than a straightforward equation. He underscores the need for men to take responsibility for their choices and the consequences they bring. Instead of blaming external factors or individuals, men should embrace their power to determine their feelings, reactions, behaviors, and performance in life.
Josh concludes the episode with his signature sign-off, “I love you, I’m proud of you, and I’ll see you next time.” He encourages listeners to recognize their sovereignty in the world and to make choices that align with the men they want to become.
Join us for this thought-provoking episode and explore the profound impact of choices and consequences on your journey towards becoming a better man.
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