Whose fault is it anyway? Take back your life with a simple mind hack.
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Resolute: Baby Steps (Part 5)
Every New Year, talk of resolutions start surfacing. In this blog series, we’ll identify what it takes to make a fresh start, and to resolve to change your life permanently.
You cannot be a new man overnight. You may find redemption and have it applied in an instant. Forgiveness can be quick…. But change, my brother, takes time.
There are always exceptions. Men who quit smoking cold turkey. Men who were knocked off a horse and blinded and went from killing Christians to serving them. Yes, sometimes change is instant.
But most of the time, change is the result of consistent baby steps.
You don’t lose 100 pounds overnight. You don’t change your mindset in an instant.
You also don’t change (for the better) by accident.
As you look at the man you want to be, set your goals. Give them a realistic time frame, and then take the time to lay out the steps it will take to get there.
You want to quit drinking soda. But you keep coming back to it. So set a date. In six months, I want to be soda free.
Then make a plan for how you are going to get there. Maybe a step down to diet soda. Then maybe once a week instead of once a day. Give each step a time frame.
You want to be a more positive person? Great. That’s a lot harder to quantize. Maybe you start by saying, “I will say ten positive things today.”
Make sure that your “gains” are marked by incremental milestones. Make sure you celebrate those milestones!
If your resolution is fuzzy, and requires you to instantly be something that you are not yet, your resolve will get weary, and you’ll never change.
Johnny Cash – The Man In Black #manlymusicfriday
While you’re waiting for the “man in red” to arrive – let’s celebrate with “The Man in Black”
Neil Diamond – Solitary Man #manlymusicfriday
This song was my anthem until I met the woman who made me not want to be solitary.
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Men (and women)
I write to you on this blog and through my books as a form of communication. My communication is simple and direct. In addition, it is filled with personal experiences.
Perhaps I should give you a brief history of myself.
I am hard of hearing and communication is very difficult for me. I wear a hearing aid (that unfortunately only works half the time if I am facing people.) Over the last 20 years, I lost some 70% of my hearing abilities through natural causes and will tell you it has only made my life better! Thats right, it made it better. I have come to realize my purpose on this earth is to give people hope and to provide information to better improve THEIR lives through my struggles.
I have put out several books on self esteem – and most recently, “How to Talk to Anyone” – the advice is my own. I provide you useful tips and tricks to make you FLOURISH in society because you have all your senses. My tricks are not for someone with a disability – but battle tested in the battlefield of life. As you know, it doesnt matter if you have everything or little – this world and society could care a less if you succeed. There are no gimmie points shelled out to me because I am hard of hearing – just sets me back as an obstacle.
So – I ask you to read these books and know this knowledge and wisdom comes from years in the field of life. Learn them – utilize the techniques and you will succeed. I can tell you they work! I am a successful salesman and found the women of my dreams. I have three amazing kids and more self confidence than I could have ever dreamed I would have.
You can have it and so much more, folks! Read the books and apply to your life. You will see a drastic change.
Kindest regards,
Andrew Wright
SELF -ESTEEM – 10 Things You Can Do to DRASTICALLY Improve Your Confidence and Love Yourself
Available on Amazon for only 99c!!!
How to Talk to Anyone
Available for only 99c!!!
Talking to….anyone!
Hello all! I just wanted to let you know about a book I wrote that is currently being offered for free till the end of the day.
Its called, “How to Talk to Anyone”
As a person that is hard of hearing, I have come to learn some tricks of the trade in communicating with virtually anyone in an effective manner. I have been able to win people over, start random conversations, and be extremely confident that the interaction is going to go favorable.
If you are looking to improve your skills, I would love for you to take advantage of this book and the free promotion. I have included real world scenarios as well.
Get approach anxiety with the opposite sex? Male or female? I have answers.
Have a problem in communicating with co-workers or people of authority? I have the answer and experience as a business to business salesman to help you out.
How about those weird situations where there is dead space after you ask an initial question? Can you say “Big gulps, huh? WELP see ya later!” Type of scenario? I can help you move passed that and into them talking about themselves so much that they look at you as the “best listener they have ever met.”
Take advantage of this. I would love your feedback as well! Thanks guys!
Kindest regards,
Andrew Wright
Download the book here! Click on the book cover below, or simply copy and paste the link into the browser!
https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Anyone-Andrew-Wright-ebook/dp/B01LR9AATS/ref=sr_1_7?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1473713117&sr=1-7&keywords=andrew+wright
Mocha In The Morning
Good afternoon guys! I just released another book called, “Mocha In The Morning.”
I am really excited about this book because its a 21 day journey geared to help you grow in faith in Jesus, and to hopefully help my readers to understand that there is POWER when your on the right team – team Jesus.
In addition, I have made all my books available for only 99c via Amazon Kindle.
You can view the book topics, titles and links through my personal page (just so I dont have to link every single one of them).
I hope you take advantage and I look forward to hearing your feedback
Here is the link
http://andrewwrightguru.wix.com/lifechange#!books/nue4c
Plant EXPECTING to Grow a Crop!
I have a new found hobby that started about 3 years ago. I LOVE growing a vegetable garden! It started with a small area of land – and its now grown into 3 areas of my land where I am growing vegetables and now planting fruit trees.
I have also gotten into raising chickens for eggs as well – but this is a different hobby, but trust me it will relate.
You see the process is – you put the seeds in the ground – and they grow into beautiful plants – right?
I got to thinking this morning – why don’t we PLANT our ideas, our dreams, our visions – like we do plants? You see we put a plant in the ground and EXPECT them to turn into beautiful roses, we expect them to turn into a mass amount of Zucchini (YUM) or Pumpkins (YAY!) tomatoes, apples, peaches, oranges – whatever it is your planting.
You are expecting a CROP! You want and expect your plants to respond to the water you feed it. You EXPECT Miracle Gro to work! Why else would you care if it died because you didn’t water it – or why else would you spend the amounts of money you do on fertilizer, potting soil, plant food, etc.
Lesson is this. Whatever you are sowing in life – EXPECT it to grow! Expect it to be bountiful! Expect it to be better than you expected!
As I mentioned in the book, Self Help 15 Ways To Drastically Improve Your Self Esteem (check it out here) you need to start somewhere. Set a small goal today that when you plant/sow something in your life that you are going to live at a level of a HIGHER expectancy.
Andrew Wright
Check out SELF HELP 15 Ways You Can Instantly Improve Your Self Esteem by clicking on the book cover below
BIG HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Big shout out and Happy Birthday to the creator of Manlihood.com – Mr. Josh Hatcher!
Please remember to shoot him a message for a BIG Happy and Blessed Birthday!
TIME TO PARTY!!!
Happy Birthday big guy!!!
