Peter O. Estévez is a motivational expert, and his podcast has over 1 million impressions with a global audience.
Born in Mexico City, migrated to the United States at the age of 10. He grew up in poverty, and a toxic home life, and learned to overcome and find success, but then he discovered that many of the same toxic mindsets were still inside him.
Peter is a partner in several energy companies (oil and gas) and an entrepreneur. He is an advocate for recovery and mental health, and also works as a philanthropist, and strives to make a difference in the world.
Richard Kaufman of the Vertical Momentum Podcast is our guest on the Manlihood ManCast. He talks about overcoming some of the darkest moments of his life, and gives hope and encouragement to men.
He operates a top ranking podcast for veteran entrepreneurs called The Vertical Momentum Podcast.
Brennen Nakane started out as an Ivy League philosopher, college football player, and rapper with a Business Economics degree from Brown University.
Then, he married a classically trained singer and film actress. The Nakane’s didn’t anticipate that their interest in human nature, philosophy, and communication would lead to the discovery that would revolutionize the way people think about personality, body language and human behavior.
The Nakane’s are pioneering what they call a “miraculous scientific discovery”
– as they combine body language, eye movements, and more into a unique framework to classify and understand people’s motivations.
The pair wrestled with what to do with their discovery, and are currently working to develop and promote their findings and understandings in a way that glorifies God and helps humanity.
We sit down with Brennen, who describes what he’s learned from years of observing the principles and patterns of human behavior and communication, how he believes it relates to life, and more.
We also talk about being a man, how to be a better man, and how to anticipate our regrets.
I have some good news! Some of you may know about my cataracts, – and the limiting effect it’s had on my vision. For those of you haven’t heard, I’ve had a steady decrease in my vision for a couple of years now, and because of a variety of complications, it took awhile for the doctors to determine the cause.
Now that we know it is caused by cataracts, we have a plan
The surgery is normally simple, but because of my small pupils, there are some extra complications.
The other complication is of my own making. I have not been taking the best care of my body and put some weight back on. Some of you know that I had lost 100 pounds in a year- but I’ve gained back some of that weight. It was my own choices, and I have been paying the price for it with inflammation and struggle. Now, that weight is actually threatening my vision.
When the doctor set my surgery date, I need to have my BMI lowered to a certain percentage in order to minimize the risk of some kind of rupture in my eyes.
Basically, I have to lose 40 pounds before the surgery.
Now, this post has been scheduled ahead – so by the time you’re reading this, I am well on my way toward crushing that goal.
But I am realizing that as I have to put a significant amount of time into meal prep, physical activity and more, I have got to pull back so that I can focus.
What does that mean for Manlihood?
Well, a few things. First of all, it means that I’ve got to take some time off from my weekly solo shows that release on Tuesdays. I’ll be back, probably around summer, or maybe sooner. You’ll see a new and improved Josh Hatcher – one most likely without glasses, and one that is a good bit skinnier.
I will continue to release my interview shows. I’ve got several shows recorded and “in the hopper” ready to go out, and a few more interviews scheduled over the next couple weeks. Which means that there will still be episodes of the Manlihood ManCast released weekly – but for now, the focus will be on our interview shows.
It also means that I’ve been challenged. There’s a part of my character that has been week – a chink of my own masculinity that has kept me weaker, and lesser than I should be.
I avoid pain at all costs. And to grow and get stronger (and lose weight) – there is going to be pain. Self Discipline is painful.
And I have learned to comfort my emotions and entertain myself with food that is bad for me. I protect myself from my painful emotions sometimes with sugar and salt and fat and chemicals that taste yummy. And the unwanted side effect is a soft armor around my entire body.
My armor of fat doesn’t protect me, though. In fact, it invites dirty looks and smart-ass remarks, makes my clothes uncomfortable, makes my body off-balance and clumsy, and feeds the internal shame monster that keeps the cycle going.
My pain avoidance doesn’t help me either. Because while I avoid the pain in my muscles and joints from walking, running, lifting, stretching – I’m just causing myself more pain in my joints and muscles.
Now I’ve got a temporary motivator. Lose 40 pounds fast so that my eyes can get fixed. The PAIN of being almost blind has been frightening and frustrating beyond belief.
That’s just a small amount of how much this fat man needs to lose. I’ve lost hundreds of pounds over and over and over again for years. So this temporary goal has to push beyond. I can’t stay here.
I can’t lead this movement if I’m blind. And I can’t lead this movement well if I’m living in the sin of a lack of self-control and pain avoidance.
Tim Culver was a US Marine Corporal and Specialized Search Dog Trainer – and spent time working with dogs in combat settings. He trained dogs to find explosives while communicating with them over radios, and to run search patterns.
Now, he trains dogs for many different scenarios, and knows canines and their behavior better than anyone.
In this conversation, we talk about dogs, we talk about manhood, we talk about mental health, and many other rabbit holes worth listening to.
I’ve known Tim since he was a kid, and I’m proud of him for the man he’s become. This interview was special for me to be able to reconnect with an old friend and hear his stories.
For 30 years, Hanson Quickel was the broadcast media specialist for the Pennsylvania Senate Republicans, and his voice was heard on radio stations across the state of PA and the whole country.
He worked with journalists, State Senators, and more. Now that he’s retired, he’s spilling the beans on his thoughts about the way journalism and politics work.
Hanson Quickel also shares some advice for men, and talks about the current state of affairs of our nation. Don’t miss this interview!
25 years of military experience has taught Jay Tiegs a thing or two – and he’s channeling that experience into the kind of coaching that helps people become high performers.
Some of the hardest lessons, Jay learned in the darkest parts of his life, and he talks with Josh Hatcher of Manlihood about clawing his way out of the depths or suicidal depression and into a life that if fullfilling an exciting.
His family lives on a homestead, raises and butchers their own meat, and they grow most of the food they need on their plot of land.
He and his wife lead an online community where they teach others the art of homesteading, natural living, and homeschooling.
Drew talks with Josh Hatcher of Manlihood about the freedom of living off the land, the way our culture has disconnected itself from its food sources, and how we can make a shift toward a healthier and more sustainable lifestyle by changing our perspective.
